Cosmopolitan Magazine Interview, February, 1963
LUNCH DATE WITH Tammy Grimes
Her House, Greenwich Village
Twenty-seven-year-old, Boston-bred
Tammy Lee Grimes decided at five she would be an actress, and went from private schools
to Stephens Junior College, Missouri, noted for its drama department. She continued
her studies at New York's Neighborhood Playhouse, did TV drama, summer stock and
became a supper-club attraction. She has starred in Look After Lulu, a short-run
musical in which she got rave reviews, and The Unsinkable Molly Brown. Her
new album, The Unmistakable Tammy Grimes, is being released this month. Divorced
from actor Christopher Plummer, she lives with their five-year-old daughter, Amanda.
When I first met Tammy Grimes, she was standing at the entrance of her apartment
beside a Rene' Bouche' portrait of herself. Under the portrait, on a small table,
was a Richard Avedon photograph of her. Though both artists had accurately captured
moods of the lady, neither prepared me for the sight of the real thing. Tammy is
5' 5" and bony thin. She was wearing shocking pink silk stretch pants, matching
boots and a print shirt. Her hair was teased up and out, her eyes profoundly "done."
The pants and the boots were by Emilio Pucci, she told me in an incomparable voice
that starts underwater and surfaces upper-class British. She has an uncountable collection
of Pucci pants, also "about a hundred" Pucci little-nothings. "Pucci
doesn't approve of the way American women wear his dresses," she said. "He
says his dresses were made to be worn with nothing under them. Can you imagine? I
really offend him: not only do I wear underwear, I also buy the dresses a size too
large so they don't cling."
Tammy had planned a picnic style lunch consisting
of hero sandwiches and wine. The sandwiches were so stuffed iwth Italian cold cuts
and relishes, we could barely bite into them; the wine (both red and white) was served
in long stemmed glasses so large they had to be held with two hands. Tammy settled
into a green velvet chair. I sat across from her on an orange couch flanked by a
pair of large rattan Hong Kong chests. Her L-shaped living room is decorated in a
way that breaks it into cozy nooks. The floors are rough oak occasionally covered
with fur throw rugs. Over a chair in one nook is a great oblong red fox thing: "an
old car rug from an old car," Tammy explained. "I'm a fur nut." Further
evidence of this truth: her orchid, black diamond and natural ranch minks, her Russian
lynx and other coats.
We were about to discuss an old friend of Tammy's named
Richard Burton when Amanda appeared. "You remeber Richard Burton don't you Manders?"
Tammy asked. "Where?" popped Amanda, scanning the room. When she found
only me she registered great disappoinment. She stayed long enough to be polite,
then went out to play, leaving me hopelessly smitten. Mandy's mother describes her
as a "withy." That lovely word means "a flexible slender twig"
(Webster's New Collegiate). It suits Amanda perfectly. She is petite and pale
and looks bendable--but not breakable. Her hair is taupe-blonde, worn in a square
page boy with bangs.
"Manders is positively fearless," Tammy commented.
"One day as she was going out, a shaggy dog twice her size stood in the doorway,
looking very unfriendly. I was glued to the spot. Manders walked up to the dog, looked
him straight in the eye and commanded: 'Pull your thockth up.'"
Would Tammy
want her daughter to be an actress? "No," she said. "I'd be afraid
she was doing it because of my influence and not because she wanted to. There was
no one in my family in the theater and I know I made a free choice. I'd like Manders
to do the same.
"As for marrying an actor, as I did, heavens no. There cannot
be two actors in the same family. Both need constant attention, both have ego problems.
Since our divorce, Chris and I get along much better. I love him, partially because
he is an actor. I love talent. Do you know what I mean? For instance, would I love
Charlie Chaplin if I didn't know his talent? Would I have loved Chris if I didn't
think he was a great actor? No."
Tammy said she would like to marry again,
but would never give up her career to be a wife: "If I weren't an actress I
wouldn't be me. Anybody who marries me, marries me. I would not give up the theater
for anything." For Amanda? "No," Tammy said again, explaining: "You've
heard all this before--that it isn't the quantity of time a mother gives a child,
it's the quality. Well, I believe that. Amanda knows I love her. She knows she is
very important to me. She also knows that I work. Wednesday, she knows, is matinee
day. And she's very independent. She has a 'nanny' to take care of her, but she can
be alone with no trouble. Would I spend more time with her if I didn't work? I don't
think so. And chances are, if I had that much time, I'd be very disgruntled anyway."
As lunch ended, we took a slow walk around the room, looking at Tammy's art collection--very
varied, very exciting: the small, square knit and velvet throw pillows she had made;
the paintings she had done; the objets, like the case of an old French clock
that now holds wine glasses; the theater memorabilia scattered on tables; a wonderful
new Yves St. Laurent dress for Amanda. Then it was time to go and Tammy walked me
to the door. "I think I'll go down and get some groceries," she said, and
asked me to wait. She returned draped in her shopping coat--the orchid mink. (You
were expecting a mackintosh?)
--LYN TORNABENE
The above article was accompanied
by a picture of the writer, Lyn sitting on the couch with Tammy and laughing into
her left arm, with the subtitle: EVEN A SHAGGY DOG story is funnier when told
by Tammy Grimes (right).