
36. Silas Parrish (later changed to Duncan)
30 May 1869
11 Apr. 1864 / 16 July 1865 Auroraville, Waushara, WI #2285361
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![]() In ABT 1847 (36) Silas Duncan and his family removed to Milford, Jefferson, WI. After his wife died, he lived there until about 1851, when he left his three sons with friends and moved north to Parfreyville (Crystal Lake), Waupaca, WI. He was there in 1860, when his son (37iv) James "Eugene" Duncan, looked him up. Silas' second wife, Elizabeth Mills, apparently died the following winter. Elizabeth was b. in MA, according to the 1860 Census. Ruth M. Sherman, b. 1818/19 MA, was also a member of the household in 1860, and a John Forbes b. 1851/52 was living with the Duncans in 1870. Silas married the third time the following Spring, shortly before two of his sons enlisted and fought at Shiloh.
Around 1870, (36) Silas and his third wife, (36[2]) Anna travelled to North Dakota with (37iv) Eugene's family and members of the Nelson, Forbes and Clarke families. They lived there for several years before returning to Wisconsin. While there, Eugene's wife, (37iv[1]) Emily wrote to (37iii) Charles & Lydia Duncan, who were then living in Wood Co., WI:
"Dear Brother and Sister: I should have written before but we have had so much trouble. Rhoda is dead, poor girl. She suffered every thing. She was very patient... Oh Lydia, I hope you will never see the trouble we have seen in Dakota. When Mother ([36{2}] Anna) and (36) Silas came here there wasn't a person for miles. We came next and then John (Forbes [1851-1908], Emily's brother). He left Rhoda (Mrs. Forbes) at Aunt Fanny (prob Nelson's until he could build. Oh Lydia, it was so hard to see poor little Arthur die and no doctor. Poor little darling, it was so hard to give him up. Mother came over and stayed with us the night he died. John and Mr. Peabody came down that night with a load of lumber. He (prob. (37iv_f) Arthur) drove with Eugene and John to Lisbon and was going to stay with Mother and me but he got lost and wandered all night in the cold rain. You don't know what it is to be lost on the parairie in the night.
"Eugene was gone two days. Aunt Fanny and Burt (Nelson, Fanny's brother) came back with him. It snowed and rained so hard they had to hold a quilt over her head all the way. The water was so deep in some places it would run in the bottom of the wagon box. The wind blew so hard I expected every minute the house would go over. I have never seen one happy moment since the baby died. I know if we had stayed in Centralia we would have him yet..."
-- Dear Cousins, 1961 E. T. Tobey Co., compiled by Pearl Duncan Larmoyeux |  
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-- Written by James Eugene Duncan, 1905 |




